When it comes to sex noises , everyone has a different style. Considerate whispering because you have roommates. Rhythmic grunts. Suuuuuper-low moans. The true pinnacle of a quiet bae enjoying themselves is hearing a few t iny moans in your ear. Sure, it may sound like weird tantric chants, but it is the highest compliment, truuust.

Quiet sex is often a matter of courtesy. In fact, regular sex helps you bond with your partner. In fact, staying silent can be extremely sexy. The need to hold back can make it even more exciting.

I was sure that moany sex meant better sex; to me, the women who used those sounds while they humped were the poster children of the sexually free. I suspected that they were having the coitus of champions, which meant, of course, that there was something I was missing out on. As the years went on, I had other boyfriends, but my decibel level remained disappointingly similar. By the time I was with Dave, my sonic landscape was still most closely matched with a library.

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